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These Zodiac Secrets Can Help Your Find Your Soul MateThese zodiac secrets can help you can find your soul mate, your zodiac love match. Be sure to learn and use each one of these secrets and you will have a greater understanding of what your zodiac soul mate should be like. Of course, if you are an astrologer, these techniques will help you in advising others on what to look for. Zodiac Secret No. 1
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Fire
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Earth
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Air
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Water
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| Aries | Taurus | Gemini | Cancer |
| Leo | Virgo | Libra | Scorpio |
| Sagittarius | Capricorn | Aquarius | Pisces |
Fire signs are in harmony with Air signs and Air signs are in harmony with Fire signs. Earth signs are in harmony with Water signs and Water signs are in harmony with Earth signs.
But Fire signs are not in harmony with Earth signs and Water signs. Earth signs and Water signs are not in harmony with Fire signs and Air signs.
This is a powerful and effective way to determine if you are a zodiac love match with another person.
Example 1
If your rising sign is in Leo, a fire sign, (refer to Figure 2 above), it would be in harmony with the other fire signs of Sagittarius and Aries, and the air signs of Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, but it would not be harmony with the Earth signs of Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, and the Water signs of Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.
Summary: If your rising sign is in the same sign as your potential zodiac love match, then you have physical harmony. You have a sense of feeling very comfortable in their physical presence. You feel that you really love being close to this person.
However, a contrasting harmonious rising sign would be preferable. This just makes the relationship more magnetic and stimulating. This is only one of the requirements for finding your soul mate or your zodiac love match.
Note: If you are anxious to know what the actual chemistry is between you and another person, i can do a soul mate reading for you. See http://www.skysage.com/orderpage.html
I have been doing these readings for over 50 years so I can help you understand what your relationship is really like. This is a perfect way to get a "reality check" on your relationship. After all, you don't want to connect up seriously with someone who is anything but your zodiac love match!
Three Things to Remember
* Zodiac signs are charged with magnetic energy
* You carry the signs inside of you
* The signs reveal everyone's hidden attitudes
This is easy to understand if you think of a circle in the sky that is divided into twelve different colors. You know, like 12 pieces of pie. Look at each sign of the zodiac as a color. You can find a detailed explanation of these colors at Zodiac Signs .
The planets travel through these twelve zodiac signs. This means, that when you were born, you inherited the magnetic energies of the signs that the planets were traveling through at that time.
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Each one of us is a miniature solar system which reflects the conditions of the heavens at the moment we are born. That's why each one of us is totally unique.
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That's why you can find out what another person is really like on the inside. This is great news for you. Now you can understand anyone. No one will ever be a mystery to you again.
People are born at different times and in different places, and some will hav attitudes that are like yours. Others will be totally different. Obviously, you have always known this. But, until now, you may not have had any way to understand these differences.
These differences reveal the conflicts between people. If you know how the other person relates to your signs, you can determine if you have sign compatibility. This is the way you can find your zodiac love match.
Here are three steps that will help you understand what creates a great zodiac love match. Also, if you are in a hurry you can contact me to do this for you. See Skysage.
* Step One: Think of a planet as a desire and a sign as an
attitude, or a way of looking at things.
* Step Two: The Venus energy within you shows what you
appreciate, prefer, like, and the kind of person you want to be with. Remember that Venus is one of the most important planets to look at when analyzing relationships.
* Step Three: Now look at the meaning of the sign where you Venus is located.
For example, I am assuming that you just looked at your chart and found that your Venus is in Aries (a fire sign).
Here is how I describe Venus in Aries (a fire sign) in my book "No One Is a Mystery - How to Use the Planets to Understand Anybody." See homepage
"When Venus is found in Aries, her gentle and kind nature is expressed as a warring spirit. She is not at home here. She will test her friends and lovers with a competitive attitude. If your Venus is in Aries (a fire sign), you love a challenge and like to test the will of others. You enjoy the forceful energy and sparks that arise from engaging a challenger in a relationship. This energy brings out the competitive spirit in you. In some ways, this can be a "turn on." You may enjoy collecting guns or war movies. You are attracted to people who are strong and energetic. You have friends like this."
Now, if Aries is the position of your Venus in the zodiac, and you meet a man who has his Venus in Taurus (an earth sign), would you be compatible? Could he be your zodiac love match? Do your Venus signs work in harmony? Check the signs in Figure 2 in the previous lessons to get your answer. Remember: When Venus is in a harmonious sign, you will really feel good together.
Here's what I wrote about a man who has his Venus in Taurus:
"Venus is very earthy, loyal and predictable in Taurus. There is love of sensual enjoyments. These relate to food, money and sex. You love good food and are a good cook. You work hard, but are sometimes slow in your responses. You are very sensual and love to touch. You may have a couch-potato side and prefer taking your time to carry out your projects. You are endearing and are very true in your affections, even though you may secretly lust after others in your fantasies. But there is no doubt that you will remain loyal in your affections. You love the simple pleasures of life and enjoy seeing other people enjoy each other. Your friends may find you out in restaurants eating the finest foods."
After looking at Figure 2 and reviewing that section, you can see that fire (Aries) and earth (Taurus) do not gel. In fact, these energies create a conflict of desires.
I have done thousands of comparison charts and can clearly state that this is no zodiac love match.
You can see that by having your Venus in Aries, you like to get up and go. This is a strong desire within you. But a man with his Venus in Taurus, likes to get up and go to the refrigerator. This is also a strong desire within him. Your desires are not in harmony.
Remember: A planet is expressed within us as a human desire. When planets are located in signs that are not compatible, there is a conflict of desires. This simple statement explains why Aries and Taurus are not good zodiac love matches.
Now you know the meaning of Zodiac Secret No. 2:
"In order to have a zodiac love match, your Venus must be in harmony with your partner's Venus. This is sign compatibility."
If you want sexual harmony in a relationship, your Venus and Mars must be compatible. As shown in Figure 2 in Secret No. 1, the signs that any planet is in must be in harmony.
Let us assume that you took a look at your birth chart and found that you have Venus in Gemini and your partner's Mars is in Capricorn.
Take a look at Figure 2 and determine if Venus in Gemini, an air sign, is in harmony with Mars in Capricorn, an earth sign. You learned in Secret No. 1 that earth and air are in "signs of discord." If this is not clear, please review that section. Venus in Gemini desires a man who is clever, bright, quick-witted, intelligent and a good communicator. These desires are in conflict with the Mars in Capricorn man. No zodiac love match here!
The passion of the Mars in Capricorn man is in business, achievement, ambition, bottom line pursuits, and a matter of fact attitude. He is not inclined to be spontaneous or intellectually stimulating. His passions are reduced to material results. Ideas and abstractions without practical considerations do not interest him. This is not the kind of man a woman with Venus in Gemini would desire.
Here's another example: Let's say that your Mars is in Aquarius and your potential partner's Venus is in Libra. Figure 2 shows that Aquarius and Libra are in harmony. Your Aquarius Mars leads you to be sexually adventurous, pushing the boundaries of sexuality. Your creative suggestions inspire the Libra Venus man to explore sexuality and relationships on a level where he has probably never been before. He would be open to these adventures. He might find you a bit strange, but he would still be very stimulated by your seductive suggestions.
Avoid the Shadows of Saturn
A shadow is created when an object stands between you and the light. Another person can stand as a shadow in your life, block out your spirit, and prevent you from getting what you want. Here's how you can recognize such a person.
Pull out your own birth chart and locate the position of your Sun in the wheel. You know, it could read Leo 25 degrees, or Aries 4 degrees, or Capricorn 17 Degrees, or some other placement. Can you tell what sign it is in? Look closely for the symbol of the Sun in Figure 1 on page 2.
The symbol for the Sun is a circle with a dot in the middle. You will find some numbers next to your Sun in the chart. This number tells you how far the Sun has moved through the sign it was in when you were born. It is important to realize that each sign is 30 degrees of a circle. Let us say your Sun is in Scorpio at 26 degrees. This means that your Sun is near the end of the sign of Scorpio (ignore the minutes).
Now, can you locate the planet, Saturn, in your chart? It looks like a small "h". These is also a number next to it. You don't have to do anything about your Saturn for now. I just want to make sure you can find it in your chart.
Now, find the Saturn in the chart of someone you like and whom you think might be a potential zodiac love match. If you don't know their time of birth just put any time into the computer so that you can get a chart printed out.
All you need is the day and year of birth, e.g. March 7, 1977. If you don't know where they were born, just make up a place so the computer can process the information.
Once you print out the chart, look for the position of his Saturn. If his Saturn is found in the sign of Scorpio, you have a problem. This will not be a zodiac love match.
Why?
Remember, that just for the sake of this exercise, we decided that you had your Sun in Scorpio. This man's Saturn is in the same sign as your Sun. This is the problem. You will feel like this man is a shadow hanging over your spirit. You will always feel dark and heavy around him. This would be quite depressing. Why?
Because Saturn is a restrictive and inhibiting force. It represents the basic fear in all of us -- what we don't want to look at --- what we avoid and suppress. This is because Saturn is ofen called a planet of karma because it represents fears that we need to confront and eventually resolve in understanding.
The light of your Sun in Scorpio, your ego and individual spirit, shines upon what the Saturn man does not want to look at. Therefore, he will try to suppress and criticize you . He does not want you to do what you like to do. You like expressing your deep emotional intensity and sexuality with your lover and he is afraid of real intimacy. He has a need to control you and suppress your need for intense emotional connections with others because of his deep fear of exposure, which is very necessary for true intimacy.
In short, you will not be able to be free with him. You cannot be who you are with him. He will not be able to share in this need of yours. In fact, he will criticize you for it because it arouses his own fear.
The lesson that you must learn from this secret is:
"Make sure his Saturn is not in the same sign as your Sun and that your Saturn is not in the same sign as his Sun."
When Will Your Life Change?
Almost every day, astrologers keep watch on the planets as they travel through the zodiac. We do this because it helps us determine coming events.
Now, I know, no astrologer can predict the future perfectly, but we can get close enough to make it useful for you. For example, I had a client who was trying to sell her house while the planet, Mercury, was moving through the sign of Cancer. Well, as many of you probably know, Cancer is the sign that rules all things having to do with land or property. Mercury rules all thinking and decision-making. So, doesn't it make sense to be thinking about your home and family while Mercury is moving through the sign of Cancer?
Mercury is a fast moving little planet, and I knew it would only be in the sign of Cancer for two or three weeks. Then it would enter the sign of Leo.
Now here's the secret: When Mercury leaves a sign having to do with what that signs rules, a final decision is made. I concluded that my client would sell her house by that date. Sure enough, she did. You can see there's nothing magical or mysterious about what I told her. It all seemed very logical to me.
I tell you this story to help you understand that life is always changing and you will be changing, too.
This little secret will help you understand when you are going to change. I am not implying that you need to change, but changes will happen.The changes shown by astrology are revealed in many different ways, but here is a way to find out when you will most likely become a different person.
When you become this changed person, you will be attracted to people who represent your change. Usually, these are not the same kind of people you were attracted to in the past.
Here's how it works: When you are born, the planets continue to move through your chart and through your life. Astrologers use the words "solar arc progressions" to explain specific changes in your life. This simply means that all the planets move one degree for every year of your life.
This is easy to understand if you think of each sign as occupying 30 degrees of the zodiac. When you look at your birth chart, you will see that your planets are at a specific degree of a sign. Let us say you are looking at your chart and you find that Mars is at five degrees of Libra. If you add one degree to your Mars for every year of your life, you will know where it is now.
Let us say that you are 25 years old and your Mars was at five degrees of Libra when you were born. Add 25 degrees to your Mars on your 25th birthday and your Mars will be at 30 degrees of Libra. This is the end of the sign of Libra.
Shortly thereafter, your birth Mars will "progress" into the sign of Scorpio. It will remain in Scorpio for 30 years!
What does this mean for you as a woman?
Mars in a woman's chart shows the kind of man she desires sexually. Prior to this time, with your Mars in Libra, you were strongly attracted to a Libra type of man. But now, with this new impulse, you will find yourself more attracted to Scorpio men. You will not lose your attraction to the Libra man, but you will have an additional attraction to the Scorpio man.
This illustration explains why people seem to change as they get older. Their birth planets move into different signs. They take on different attitudes. They become more interested in the things and people who reflect these signs. But may have never associated with these people before.
In this case, don't be surprised if a Scorpio turns out to be your zodiac love match even though you have never had any relationship with them.
In relationships, it is very important to understand these changes because you will find yourself attracted to a different kind of person or situation and wonder "why?" These changes do make life more interesting and give you more choices. If this is puzzle ing to you, get an analysis of this done from your chart.
A skilled astrologer can clarify a lot of these new feelings that may be puzzling to you. If you would like to have a complete analysis of your chart and learn what kind of relationships are best for you. please contact me
Making Soul Mate Connections
So many of you want to know how you can find your soul mate. That's natural because we all want to be with someone who will accept us for who we are and who will love us without conditions. But what is a soul mate?
Surely, a soul mate is someone who reflects our soul -- the very heart of who we are. We love our soul mate profoundly because we know that they are our heart. But, alas, most of us have never even met such a person. This is a sad situation. But it is even often more sad when a person runs into their soul mate and don't even recognize him! Isn't this strange? How could this be?
One thing seems for certain. It is nearly impossible to find your soul mate if you are not ready to receive him in you heart. This means that you must be ready to give your heart away. No holding back. Are you really willing to do this?
Now, many people misunderstand this. They feel that if they give their heart away, they will be an utter fool and totally vulnerable. In short, they feel that they could get blown away by the other person, wounded, and left bleeding.
So many, many people are terrified of the kind of intimacy a surrendered heart would bring. But it is precisely this kind of intimacy that will help you discover your soul mate. Your zodiac love match.
You don't just randomly run into your soul mate. You have to be ready. You have to earn that connection. So, what can you do?
Don't always go into a relationship trying to play it safe. I know. These are dangerous times, but in matters of love, playing it safe can be deadly when it comes to finding your soul mate. At some point, you must truly surrender your heart. No turning back. No retreat. You simply do it and take your chances. Read what one of my friends said about this in my book, "The Heart of A Man is a Woman."
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"I finally listened to your suggestion which was to allow myself to fall in love. Not only did I experience my capacity to love deeply but I experienced a depth of pain so much at my core that I seemed immobilized for a time. But, oh, what a teaching I have had and what a wondrous gift I was given -- for I know myself now in a way that I was unconscious to prior to meeting the man I fell in love with." AC |
You must be at the mercy of your lover. That is the risk a surrendered heart must take. This is how you will come to discover who you really are. Just think about this. You may even give you heart to the wrong person. But even if you do, you will grow beyond your limitations. A true lover never loses. But they may srely lose their lover. I repeat. To find your soul mate you must be willing to lose your heart. Not keep it for yourself. Real lovers are wild. Real lovers are fools. But in the end, they find themselves. They eventually become very wise people and stand out as an inspiring example to others.
Are you one of these?
Now, on your way to finding the love of your life, let us look at some ways that you can recognize your soul mate connections.
If a woman meets a man who has his Sun in the same sign and degree as her Neptune, she will feel that he is her "God-Man." He becomes a living ideal for her, because Neptune is that part of us that imparts the urge to ecstasy. His Sun illumines this part of her psyche and arouses transcendental feelings of love.
However, if this happens to you, beware. Neptune is often the great "illusion-maker." Its influence can lead you to feel that you've found your true zodiac love match. This feeling may be true, or it could be an illusion.The best way to work through this profound idealism is to see if the real man is the lover you have envisioned. In short, you must give this relationship a "reality check." Secret No. 7 below will help you do that.
If you meet a man whose Sun is in the same sign and degree of your Pluto, you will become convinced that he is definitely your soul mate. This Sun/Pluto connection can certainly feel that way. I told a client about this, and a few months later she said she saw such a man across the driveway and lost her heart immediately. It was only later, after she made contact with him, did she discover that he had his Sun at 13 degrees of Leo and her Pluto was in the same sign and degree.
This may be a feeling that you have never experienced before. It is profound, unique, totally different, and incredibly intense. You may become completely obsessed with him. He may be your soul mate. Then, maybe not. This is where you would need a skilled astrologer to look at the total relationship. This man may have only a part of what you need. But the Sun/Pluto connection will make you feel like "This is it."
Be safe. Make sure you have this checked out with me at CheckMatch where you can get the support you really need to undersand your relationships.
How to Recognize Fatal Attractions
The question is "How can you recognize a fatal attraction so that you can avoid getting involved in one?"
Fortunately, we have the planets to guide us. Fatal attractions are always possible when you have negative connections between you and another person.
There are two types of fatal attraction that are shown by the adverse relationship of the major planets Pluto and Neptune to one or more of your personal planets, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, or Mars.
As you have seen, Neptune relates to the world of illusion, deception, seduction, idealism and spirituality. Pluto relates to the world of unconscious desires, sexuality, possession, coercion, and self-transformation.
The energies of these two planets arouse the most intense and
the most seductive desires between the partners of any sex. Therefore, we have the Pluto Type of fatal attraction and the Neptune Type of fatal attraction.
The adverse relationships* (see explanation at the bottom of the page) created by the planet Pluto relate specifically to emotional, sexual possession and coercion. When another person's Pluto relates to your Sun, Moon, Venus or Mars in a negative way, the Type A fatal attraction dominates. When Pluto in the charts of both people are related negatively to each other's Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus or Mars, the Type B fatal attraction is present.
Type A: This is where a person is obsessed with you and makes impossible demands for you to fulfill their needs. The impulse of Pluto drives them to extract more from you than you may want to give or are capable of giving. You may find their behavior coercive and overt, because you may not have the same obsessive desire for them.
Type B: This is where both of you are obsessed with each other. You seem to become different people when you are together. The intense sexual and emotional energy between you may turn into an addiction which would be very difficult to maintain or give up.
The Neptune Types of Fatal Attraction
The adverse relationships created by the planet Neptune relate specifically to emotional, sexual deception and seduction. When another person's Neptune relates to your personal planets in a negative way, Type A fatal attraction dominates. When Neptune in the chart of each person is negatively related to the other’s impersonal planets, Type B fatal attraction is possible.
Type A is where the other person can manipulate you emotionally or sexually to gain control over you. They will play upon your guilt and your need to be needed. It may be difficult for you to see what is happening because you may be seduced by their so-called good intentions.
Type B: This is where you both tend to deceive each other and create confusion and distrust in your relationship. You seem to depend too much on each other to explain what the relationship really means. Accusations, lies, and intrigue tend to grow like a disease and create an impossible situation. The reliance upon each other for emotional support and sexual thrills can be based totally on an ilusion. Your dreams about each other could turn into a nightmare because they are not based on reality.
*Adverse relationships are shown by planetary relationships. To understand how to determine if these star-sounds between you are positive or negative, you may want a quick relationship analysis. If so, please go to your relationship analysis order page. Otherwise, this could become very confusing.
I wish you all the best in your search for your twin flame, your soul mate, zodiac love match.


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