In Search of Your Zodiac Love Match

Zodiac Secret No. 1

When Looking For Your Zodiac Love Match, Your Rising Signs Must Be In Harmony

You've probably heard a lot about the rising sign. Let's take a look at why it is important in searching for your twin flame, zodiac love match, or your soulmate.

Look at the 9 o'clock position on your watch. If you were looking at a computer printout of your birth chart wheel, this would be the place of your rising sign. If you do not have a printout of your birth chart, go to www.alabe.com, put in your date, time, and place of birth and you can print one out. You can also get a simple astrology program to do any future work. Click on the astrology icon to your right and talk to them about what kind of software you are looking for. He can help you make the right decision.It is very important to have a copy of your birth chart when trying to find your twin flame. Don't forget. It's a map of who you are and you will need to compare your chart with the other person to determine if he is your soul mate or not.

Now, I realize that as you look at your chart in your hand, you will
shake your head and wonder, "What does all this stuff mean? How
could I ever find my twin flame by using this?" Fear not. I will
explain.

I assume that you now have your birth chart before you. Relax. You don't have to understand very much. But there is one thing you do need to do. Notice that your chart is in the form of a wheel.

Well, as I said earlier, the place of your rising sign is at the 9
o'clock position of the wheel. Just look at your chart and think of each hour hand as a sign on this wheel. The sign at 9 o'clock is the rising sign at the moment of your birth.

You will see a symbol at the 9 o'clock position of your chart. Notice that this symbol can be found under "The Signs and Planets" section below at Figure 1. This is the symbol of your rising sign. A very important key for finding your twin flame. All you have to do is take a out a piece of paper, locate your rising sign on your birth chart, and write it down. Draw the sign and put the name of the sign next to the drawing. Let us look at sign compatibility.

The Signs and Planets

Figure 1.

After you have determined your rising sign, go to Zodiac Signs and you will find detailed descriptions of the signs. You should print out this entire document for future reference, or be able to access it when you need it for understanding the sign compatibility of your soul mate.

Next, locate your partner's rising sign. Please realize that you cannot know another person's rising sign if you do not have their date, time, and place of birth. Make sure that you have their correct birth time. Otherwise, your interpretation will be wrong.

Here's how to find out if your partner's rising sign is in harmony with yours. Look at Figure 2 below. All the signs under each category are in harmony with each other.

For example, the signs that are listed under the Water column are in harmony with each other. The signs under the other elements are also in harmony with that element.

Figure 2

Signs In Harmony

Fire signs are in harmony with Air signs and Air signs are in
harmony with Fire signs. Earth signs are in harmony with Water
signs and Water signs are in harmony with Earth signs.

Signs In Discord

But Fire signs are not in harmony with Earth signs and Water
signs. Earth signs and Water signs are not in harmony with Fire
signs and Air signs.

Example 1

If your rising sign is in Leo, a fire sign, (refer to Figure 2 above), it would be in harmony with the other fire signs of Sagittarius and Aries, and the air signs of Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, but it would not be harmony with the Earth signs of Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, and the Water signs of Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.

Summary: If your rising sign is in the same sign as your potential twin flame, you have physical harmony.

However, a contrasting harmonious rising sign would be preferable. This just makes the relationship more magnetic and stimulating. This is only one of the requirements for finding your twin flame or soul mate.

Zodiac Secret No. 2

Your Venus Must Be In Harmony With Your Partner's Venus

Three Things to Remember

* Zodiac signs are charged with magnetic energy
* You carry the signs inside of you
* The signs reveal everyone's hidden attitudes

This is easy to understand if you think of a circle in the sky that is divided into twelve different colors. You know, like 12 pieces of pie. Look at each sign of the zodiac as a color. You can find a detailed explanation of these colors at Zodiac Signs .

The planets travel through these twelve zodiac signs. This means, that when you were born, you inherited the magnetic energies of the signs that the planets were traveling through at that time.

Each one of us is a miniature solar system which reflects the conditions of the heavens at the moment we are born. That's why each one of us is totally unique.

That's why you can find out what another person is really like on the inside. This is great news for you. Now you can understand anyone. No one will ever be a mystery to you again.

People are born at different times and places, and some will have
attitudes that are like yours. Others will be totally different. Obviously, you have always known this. But, until now, you may not have had any way to understand these differences.

These differences reveal the conflicts between people. If you know
how the other person relates to your signs, you can determine if you have sign compatibility. This is the way you can find your zodiac love match.

The Process

Here are three steps that will help you understand what creates a
good zodiac match:

* Step One: Think of a planet as a desire and a sign as an
attitude, viewpoint, or a way of looking at things.

* Step Two: The Venus energy within you shows what you
appreciate, prefer, like, and the kind of person you want to be with.

* Step Three: Now discover the meaning of the sign where your
Venus is located.

I am assuming that you just looked at your chart and found that
your Venus is in Aries (a fire sign).

Here is how I describe Venus in Aries (a fire sign) in my book "No One Is a Mystery - How to Use the Planets to Understand Anybody."

"When Venus is found in Aries, her gentle and kind nature is expressed as a warring spirit. She is not at home here. She will test her friends and lovers with a competitive attitude. If your Venus is in Aries (a fire sign), you love a challenge and like to test the will of others. You enjoy the forceful energy and sparks that arise from engaging a challenger in a relationship. This energy brings out the competitive spirit in you. In some ways, this can be a "turn on." You may enjoy collecting guns or war movies. You are attracted to people who are strong and energetic. You have friends like this."

Now, if this is the position of your Venus in the zodiac, and you meet a man who has his Venus in Taurus (an earth sign), would you be compatible? Could he be your zodiac love match? Do your Venus signs work in harmony? Check the signs in Figure 2 in the previous lessons to get your answer.

Here's what I wrote about a man who has his Venus in Taurus: "Venus is very earthy, loyal and predictable in Taurus. There is love of sensual enjoyments. These relate to food, money and sex. You love good food and are a good cook. You work hard, but are sometimes slow in your responses. You are very sensual and love to touch. You may have a couch-potato side and prefer taking your time to carry out your projects. You are endearing and are very true in your affections, even though you may secretly lust after others in your fantasies. But there is no doubt that you will remain loyal in your affections. You love the simple pleasures of life and enjoy seeing other people enjoy each other. Your friends may find you out in restaurants eating the finest foods."

After looking at Figure 2 and reviewing that section, you can see that fire (Aries) and earth (Taurus) do not gel. In fact, these energies create a conflict of desires.

You can see that by having your Venus in Aries, you like to get up and go. This is a strong desire within you. But a man with his Venus in Taurus, likes to get up and go to the refrigerator. This is also a strong desire within him. Your desires are not in harmony. Remember: A planet is expressed within us as a human desire. When planets are located in signs that are not compatible, there is a conflict of desires. This simple statement explains why Aries and Taurus are not good zodiac love matches.

Now you know the meaning of Zodiac Secret No. 2: "In order to have a zodiac love match, your Venus must be in harmony with your partner's Venus. This is sign compatibility."

Zodiac Secret No. 3

Sexual Chemistry Is Revealed By Venus and Mars

If you want sexual harmony in a relationship, your Venus and Mars must be compatible. As shown in Figure 2 in Secret No. 1, the signs that any planet is in must be in harmony.

Let us assume that you took a look at your birth chart and found
that you have Venus in Gemini and your partner's Mars is in
Capricorn. Take a look at Figure 2 and determine if Venus in Gemini, an air sign, is in harmony with Mars in Capricorn, an earth sign. You learned in Secret No. 1 that earth and air are in "signs of discord." If this is not clear, please review that section. Venus in Gemini desires a man who is clever, bright, quick-witted, intelligent and a good communicator. This desires is in conflict with the Mars in Capricorn man.

The passion of the Mars in Capricorn man is in business, achievement, ambition, bottom line pursuits, and a matter of fact attitude. He is not inclined to be spontaneous or intellectually stimulating. His passions are reduced to material results. Ideas and abstractions without practical considerations do not interest him. This is not the kind of man a woman with Venus in Gemini would want.

Here's another example: Let's say that your Mars is in Aquarius and your potential partner's Venus is in Libra. Figure 2 shows that Aquarius and Libra are in harmony. Your Aquarius Mars leads you to be sexually adventurous, pushing the boundaries of sexuality. Your creative suggestions inspire the Libra Venus man to explore sexuality and relationships on a level where he has probably never been before. He would be open to these adventures. He might find you a bit strange, but he would still be very stimulated by your suggestions.

Zodiac Secret No. 4

Avoid the Shadows of Saturn

A shadow is created when an object stands between you and the light. Another person can stand as a shadow in your life, block out your spirit, and prevent you from getting what you want. Here's how you can recognize such a person.

Pull out your own birth chart and locate the position of your Sun in the wheel. You know, it could read Leo 25 degrees, or Aries 4 degrees, or Capricorn 17 Degrees, or some other placement. Can you tell what sign it is in? Look closely for the symbol of the Sun in Figure 1 on page 2.

The symbol for the Sun is a circle with a dot in the middle. You will find some numbers next to your Sun in the chart. This number tells you how far the Sun has moved through the sign it was in when you were born. It is important to realize that each sign is 30 degrees of a circle. Let us say your Sun is in Scorpio at 26 degrees. This means that your Sun is near the end of the sign of Scorpio (ignore the minutes).

Now, can you locate the planet, Saturn, in your chart? It looks like
a small "h". These is also a number next to it. You don't have to do anything about your Saturn for now. I just want to make sure you can find it in your chart.

Now, find the Saturn in the chart of someone you are interested in
and whom you think might be a potential zodiac love match. If you don't know their time of birth just put any time into the computer so that you can get a chart printed out.

All you need is the day and year of birth, e.g. March 7, 1977. If you don't know where they were born, just make up a place so the computer can process the information.

Once you print out the chart, look for the position of his Saturn. If his Saturn is found in the sign of Scorpio, you have a problem. Why?

Remember that just for the sake of this exercise, we decided that you had your Sun in Scorpio. This man's Saturn is in the same sign as your Sun. This is the problem. You will feel like this man is a shadow hanging over your spirit. You will always feel dark and heavy around him. This would be quite depressing. Why?

Because Saturn is a restrictive and inhibiting force. It represents the basic fear in all of us -- what we don't want to look at --- what we avoid and suppress.

The light of your Sun in Scorpio, your ego and individual spirit, shines upon what the Saturn man does not want to look at. Therefore, he will try to suppress and criticize you . He does not want you to do what you like to do. You like expressing your deep emotional intensity and sexuality with your lover and he is afraid of real intimacy. He has a need to control you and suppress your need for intense emotional connections with others because of his deep fear of exposure, which is necessary for true intimacy.

In short, you will not be able to be free with him. You cannot be who you are with him. He will not be able to share in this need of yours. In fact, he will criticize your for it because it arouses his own fear.

The lesson that you must learn from this secret is: "Make sure his Saturn is not in the same sign as your Sun and that your Saturn is not in the same sign as his Sun."

Zodiac Secret No. 5

When Will Your Life Change?

Almost every day, astrologers keep watch on the planets as they travel through the zodiac. We do this because it helps us determine coming events.

Now, I know, no astrologer can predict the future perfectly, but we can get close enough to make it useful for you. For example, I had a client who was trying to sell her house while the planet, Mercury, was moving through the sign of Cancer. Well, as many of you probably know, Cancer is the sign that rules all things having to do with land or property. Mercury rules all thinking and decision-making. So, doesn't it make sense to be thinking about your home and family while Mercury is moving through the sign of Cancer?

Mercury is a fast moving little planet, and I knew it would only be in the sign of Cancer for two or three weeks. Then it would enter the sign of Leo. Now here's the secret: When Mercury leaves a sign having to do with what that signs rules, a final decision is made. I concluded that my client would sell her house by that date. Sure enough, she did. You can see there's nothing magical or mysterious about what I told her. It all seemed very logical to me.

I tell you this story to help you understand that life is always changing and you will be changing, too.

This little secret will help you understand when you are going to change. I am not implying that you need to change, but changes will happen.The changes shown by astrology are revealed in many different ways, but here is a way to find out when you will most likely become a different person.

When you become this changed person, you will be attracted to people who represent your change. Usually, these are not the same kind of people you were attracted to in the past.

Here's how it works: When you are born, the planets continue to move through your chart and through your life. Astrologers use the words "solar arc progressions" to explain specific changes in your life. This simply means that all the planets move one degree for every year of your life.

This is easy to understand if you think of each sign as occupying 30 degrees of the zodiac. When you look at your birth chart, you will see that your planets are at a specific degree of a sign. Let us say you are looking at your chart and you find that Mars is at five degrees of Libra. If you add one degree to your Mars for every year of your life, you will know where it is now.

Let us say that you are 25 years old and your Mars was at five degrees of Libra when you were born. Add 25 degrees to your Mars on your 25th birthday and your Mars will be at 30 degrees of Libra. This is the end of the sign of Libra.

Shortly thereafter, your birth Mars will "progress" into the sign of Scorpio. It will remain in Scorpio for 30 years!

What does this mean for you as a woman?

Mars in a woman's chart shows the kind of man she desires sexually. Prior to this time, with your Mars in Libra, you were strongly attracted to a Libra type of man. But now, with this new impulse, you will find yourself more attracted to Scorpio men. You will not lose your attraction to the Libra man, but you will have an additional attraction to the Scorpio man.

This illustration explains why people seem to change as they get older. Their birth planets move into different signs. The take on different attitudes. They become more interested in the things and people who reflect these signs.

In relationships, it is very important to understand these changes because you will find yourself attracted to a different kind of person or situation and wonder "why?" These changes do make life more interesting and give you more choices. You could have this kind of analysis done on your chart. A skilled astrologer can clarify a lot of these new feelings that may be puzzling to you. If you would like to have a complete nalysis of your chart and earn what kind of relationships are best for you. please contact me

Zodiac Secret No. 6

Making Soul Mate Connections

So many of you want to know how you can find your soul mate. That's natural because we all want to be with someone who will accept us for who we are and who will love us without conditions. But what is a soul mate?

Surely, a soul mate is someone who reflects our soul -- the very heart of who we are. We love our soul mate profoundly because we know that they are our heart. But, alas, most of us have never even met such a person. This is a sad situation. But it is even often more sad when a person runs into their soul mate and doesn't even recognize him! Doesn't this seem strange? How could this be?

One thing seems for certain. It is nearly impossible to find your soul mate if you are not ready to receive him in you heart. This means that you must be ready to give your heart away. No holding back. Are you really willing to do this?

Now, many people misunderstand this. They feel that if they give their heart away, they will be an utter fool and totally vulnerable. In short, they feel that they could get blown away by the other person and left bleeding.

So many, many people are terrified of the kind of intimacy a surrendered heart would bring. But it is precisely this kind of intimacy that will help you discover your soul mate. Your zodiac love match.

You don't just randomly run into your soul mate. You have to be ready. You have to earn that connection. So, what can you do?

Don't always go into a relationship trying to play it safe. I know. These are dangerous times, but in matters of love, playing it safe can be deadly when it comes to finding your soul mate. At some point, you must truly surrender your heart. No turning back. No retreat. You simply do it and take your chances. Read what one of my friends said about this in my book, "The Heart of A Man is a Woman."

*Adverse relationships are shown by planetary relationships. To understand how to determine if these relationships are positive or negative, you need to contact me and we can discuss your options. Otherwise, this could become very confusing. If you need to contact me, email me at Skysage All the best, in your search for your twin flame, zodiac love match, your soul mate.

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